Make Her Your Priority And Feel Top
Men, do you know how to make her your priority? If not, this recent post from BBC might give you some trepidations. Here it is, that women ‘more likely to lose interest in sex than men’. How do you feel now, guys?
Women are more than twice as likely as men to lack interest in sex when living with a partner, a study of British sexual attitudes suggests. It found that while men and women lost passion with age, women were often left cold by longer relationships.
Overall, poor health and a lack of emotional closeness affected both men’s and women’s desire for sex.
It makes me panicky. Then I saw this tragic post, and it got me thinking what I need to do. In order to make her continue love me and to have sex with me after year one.
While I was thinking about this in a bar on a Wednesday evening, I overhead a snippet of a conversation between two young women in a bar. It made me rethink everything I thought that I understood about sex. I am in a men virility business and of course, it poses great concern to me regarding womanly psychology to sex.
Confessions of Two Women
Girl one turns to her friend and says.
“Ted is such a great guy and could be a great lover if he wasn’t so keen on getting finished.”
Girl two replies.
“I know. I don’t get it, it seems that men can’t tell the difference. The difference between enjoying sex with another person or with their right hand. It would be wonderful if he makes me his priority.”
When I thought about what they had said it was clear on one thing. The two young women were wondering why the experience could not last longer. They enjoy the pleasure and touches. Yet they believe that their men were too eager to dash to the finishing line. The emotional bonding and experience could even be better if men do not seem so “rushed”. They just want the guys to make her the priority, rather than being on his own needs.
And it all makes complete sense when you think about it. Men are more into the climax part. They enjoy the climax so much that they might neglect their women’s emotional needs. And they forget to make her your priority. It is like rushing to read the final chapter of the best seller book straight away. As if the introduction, characters, and buildup are not important. So it led me to question why we would be happy to bypass that part of the story when it comes to sex.
So then came my eureka moment. When everything that is so clear to every female on the planet. But much less so to the male gender, sex is not only about intercourse. If men continue to view it this way, they are missing out on a lot of mind-blowing experience! Imagine the similar level of satisfaction men and his women are engaging together.. Rather than only himself.
To many guys, the indicator of a happy partner is one that achieves regular orgasms. Expert on sex, Coleen Singer, said that is far from that. She says great love making for women is 80 per cent mental and only 20 per cent physical. The key according to Coleen is maintaining strong, solid communication. Understanding what touches, words and what rhythm makes her happy.
“First, it means that you are giving her the kind of sexual pleasure she desires. It also indicates that she appreciates you. You are taking the time and focus to do the things that you know drive her wild in bed.”
What Makes An Understanding Man?
Dr. Dawn Michael, a clinical sexologist relationship expert adds this. That a man needs to understand a woman’s intimate unique details. In this way, she will feel that she is the priority and so ensure that she is able to achieve her supreme level of bliss.
Well it’s a bit of a shock when you discover that you’ve been getting the whole sex thing wrong. Well, some of the blame should go to the door of the porn industry for their “wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am” methods. So I’ve heard anyway.
The principle seems to be simple. Heed this. If your partner doesn’t feel she is special to you. Or your care does not seem to be there enough or sooner. If this happens, she may be in the loop to find another better guy who does make her feel special. So guys, wise up and take care of your body and her mind to ensure those mind numbing orgasms are common occurrence. Always make her your priority.